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    母親的責任

    時間:2012-01-17 20:35來源:中國弟子規網 作者:弟子規 點擊:
    幾年前的一天,我正在超級市場玩具部的柜臺上忙著接待顧客。大廳里人來人往,熙熙攘攘。這時,一位30多歲的女士走了過來,身后跟著一個七八歲的小男孩,模樣像小學一二年級的

     

     

     

    幾年前的一天,我正在超級市場玩具部的柜臺上忙著接待顧客。大廳里人來人往,熙熙攘攘。這時,一位30多歲的女士走了過來,身后跟著一個七八歲的小男孩,模樣像小學一二年級的學生。

    這位女士用懇求的語氣對我說:「小姐,您能抽點兒時間聽一聽我兒子說的話嗎?」

    我立即走出柜臺,蹲下來問小男孩有什么事。只見他的小嘴緊閉著,兩眼盯著鞋子,一雙小手在輕輕地發抖——他手里拿著一個當時深受兒童喜愛的「機器人」玩具,這種玩具正是在我的柜臺上展銷的。

    「快點兒說!小姐沒有閑工夫等你,你快點兒說!」他的母親聲色俱厲地呵斥道。

    突然間,氣氛變得緊張起來,母親氣得直掉眼淚,男孩也哭了起來。我頓時感覺到,可能發生了什么要緊的事情,自己必須耐心地聽完這個孩子要說出什么話。這或許與母子倆都有著直接的切身利害關系,甚至可能比這還要重要,重要得將會影響這個小男孩的生活和成長……

    過了幾分鐘,在我耐心親切的詢問下,小男孩好不容易才結結巴巴地擠出一句話——「小……姐,我沒……沒想……拿走,還……還想……送回來,對……不……起。」他邊說邊把那個裝在皺皺巴巴的包裝盒里的「機器人」玩具遞了過來。

    我終于弄懂了是怎么一回事,接過了「機器人」玩具,并微笑著用手撫摸小男孩的頭。這時,小男孩的母親才輕輕地嘆了一口氣,并要我把玩具部的經理請來,她得把這件事情講清楚,還要賠禮道歉。

    這位母親對自己孩子偷拿玩具的做法使我很受感動,我深深體會到一位高尚的母親對孩子的一片真情真愛,也更理解了她對教育孩子如何做人的高度重視感和強烈責任心。我有些激動地說:「夫人,不必了,這個玩具我收回就行了,讓這件事成為我們三個人的共同秘密吧!既然孩子明白了,也知道自己錯了,這就夠了。」

    那位女士離去前幾次向我鞠躬致歉的身影,至今經常在我眼前閃現。

    選自《智慧背囊》第2輯 哈爾濱出版社出版

    人一生最難得的就是能清清白白,仰不愧于天,俯不怍于人,這樣才能活得心安理得。故事中的母親深明這個道理,并且很有智慧。當孩子犯錯以后,她不是粗暴地責打辱罵,那樣會使事態激化,反而給孩子的心靈留下難以抹去的陰影。她選擇了帶著孩子來到商場,誠懇請求售貨員傾聽孩子的道歉,態度堅定地要求孩子親自說出來所犯的過失,讓孩子自己承擔結果。相信這位有智慧的母親和充滿愛心售貨員的合作「表演」,一定會給小孩子留下深刻的印象。

    種下一棵樹苗,一定要不停地呵護它,給它澆水、施肥。樹身歪斜時,要把它扶正,這樣,它將來才能長成參天大樹。培養孩子也是一樣,僅有呵護還是不夠的,一定要讓他健康地成長。

    負責的父母,應該懂得在孩子第一次犯錯的時候,牢牢把握住機會教育點,讓這次犯錯成為孩子成長的開始,而不是墮落的起點。所以,教育首重「慎于始」。

     

     

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