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    如何拒絕應酬?

    時間:2012-07-13 10:18來源:中國弟子規網 作者:弟子規 點擊:
    蔡禮旭老師 這個親所好,我們也可以把它再延伸開來,當作不只是父母,我們的親人所希望的,我們做得到也要盡力去做。比方說妻子、兒女一定希望我們能夠多陪伴他,有句話是說,

      
                                                                                          蔡禮旭老師

     
        這個“親所好”,我們也可以把它再延伸開來,當作不只是父母,我們的親人所希望的,我們做得到也要盡力去做。比方說妻子、兒女一定希望我們能夠多陪伴他,有句話是說,所有的成功都取代不了家庭的失敗。很多人說,現在我工作那么忙,哪有時間陪孩子?他們都說人在江湖,身不由己。這句話有沒有道理?這個叫找藉口。人只要有心,一定可以把事情做好。當然確確實實人情當中也是有很多情況會發生,所以一定要學習一個能力,叫拒絕的能力。不然你的時間統統會耗在應酬,耗在很多對家庭、對人生不大有相關的事情上。

      拒絕容不容易學?諸位朋友,你覺得拒絕容不容易?不容易。拒絕他人,我們可以拿出兩大法寶,這兩個法寶拿出來,一般朋友就不會為難你。第一個法寶就是父母。比方說朋友要找你去花天酒地,你實在是不想去,一去又要熬到半夜一、兩點,談的都是什么?“言不及義,好行小慧”的這些言語,你實在不想去,你這個時候就可以把父母請出來。就跟他說:我已經答應我媽媽要回去,今天晚上陪她,我已經一、兩個禮拜前就答應她了,所以我得回去。一般的朋友聽到你要回去探望父母,他會怎么樣?他當然應該不會勉強你。說不定你這么一講,他也突然想到:我也很久沒有回去看我父母了。反而你這個拒絕還喚醒了他的孝心,這是第一個法寶。

      第二個法寶是妻兒。當你不想去無謂的應酬,你可以跟他說:今天晚上我要跟我兒子講兩個德育故事,都已經跟他約好了,因為我現在一起跟他在做《弟子規》,來當我們的家規。《弟子規》說,“凡出言,信為先”,孩子還小,我不會失信於他,所以我必須回去。當你把這兩個王牌拿出來,基本上,朋友不會強你所難。假如兩張王牌拿出來還是沒用,還是硬要拉你去,怎么辦?假如是這樣的朋友,我看人生應該有所取舍,這樣的朋友應該敬而遠之。   
     
    感恩老師!   

     

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